When you start growing up, you progressively understand that habits and society norms are not as solid and self explained as you thought in the first place. Mating is one of those weird acts that very few people on this planet can trully explain. What is really amazing is that this knowledge escapes even from the most educated of our planet. It actually looks like that  the more educated an individual is, the less one understands love, mating and women.

Take, for example, the debate of, whether humans are polyamorous or not.  Seven out of ten cases the answer will be that we are meant to be loyal. However, recent, scientific evidence has revealed that men are naturally polygynous and that this idea is supported by the increased size of males vs the one of the females. Scientists have figured out that the increased size of male size in a spieces indicates female sexual selection. This also means that in order for increased size to exist some men had many women, while many men had no women at all. Through sexual arms race men evolved to be slightly bigger than women. The bigger guy gets two women, the smaller guy gets none.

However, the biggest attractive trait is not our muscle: it is our intelligence. And the problem with intelligence is that it becomes very, very difficult to measure it directly.

So, women are left with the next best thing to gauge a man's intelligence: his acts, his wits and his arts.



Then this idea started to connect with the crime-productivity age. Scientists noticed that people in all societies have a very specific age during which "men commit their biggest crimes, produced their biggest art pieces and made their biggest scientific discoveries". This age that starts at late teen, peaks around thirty and starts to diminish around middle age, is known as the crime-production curve.

What really completes the puzzle has to do with the famous male middle age crisis. Well, it turns out that it simply doesn't exist. The latest evidence shows that the start of such a crisis  for every man is perfectly  correlated with the age that his wife enters menopause - the age where she seizes to be fertile. And as you must have figured out, if his wife is really young he will never experience such a crisis.

Which brings up the question: can it be that most of our male instincts  boil down only to gene distribution and that all our expressions are simply a vehicle to get access to the world's most precious beings?

I am not sure but it sure looks like this.

From where I see this, if you connect the dots the figure that appears to emerge seems to be a female figure, and she looks pretty.

My impression is that men compete to gain access to genetic immortality - a way to spread their selfish genes. And if this is true then wealth and fortune inequalities serve also as a system to ensure even greater superiority to one's genes: his offsprings. By building a huge fortune, you make sure that your future genes will enjoy security, social status and enough wealth to control their destiny and meet even more pretty women - and smart men.



Could we find a counter paradigm to this theory? Is there something that can cancel the above way of thinking ? Until now nothing has came up.


So, if this is true, then the concept of monogamous marriage is trully a democratic tool: one woman for every man. No man will even die childless because his king stole away his women.

As a side effect this also means that  the secret reason why men try to get 'glory, fame and wealth' is simply because they subconsciously want to impress the ladies. Under this look, science is a great by product of seduction.

I like this.

However, most men may have taken the long and hard way to womanizing as they have never heard of some underground movements that have appeared lately.

By using tools like underground pickup games and seduction ebooks that really few people know about, these men have figured out ways to bypass the whole mountain and go straight for the gold.

While most men spend their whole lives trying to earn status, fame and money, a few men walk by the whole system and just seduce women by turning the whole female psychology upside down.

The professional seducers have a deep understanding of how women feel, and they use this knowledge to seduce women while most men stay home and try to build wealth and fame.

Some of their tools are very counter intuitive:

- The use specially trained emotional states that become contagious to women and trigger attraction
- They understand the notion of psychological frames and take domination of the conversation in a way that provokes awe (frame games)
- They use humor, evolution's most secret seduction weapon.
- They use double edged compliments: "You are pretty, even with your funny teeth". Elements that really remind to women that they are equal.
- They initiate touch in specific ways that have been proven to trigger attraction.
- They make special use of their body language and style in such a way that women can distinguish them

... and these examples are only the tip of the iceberg.

Having a deep personal experience of their systems and techniques, I can assure you that not only they have results, but that they do so in a mind bending level. If you want a good read on the subject just have a look at the excellent book Kiss Or Miss: the seduction ebook .

Nobody is sure. It looks like flirting and seduction are much more important for our society from what we thought of before. When the day  comes and sex becomes abundant and easy for all men, then that day may mean less wars and less wealth inequalities for the habitants of this planet.

Maybe the old motto was true after all.

'Make Love, not War'....

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